Her Mannerisms: If you notice these signs, the first thing you have to decide is do you really want to know. If you decide you do want to know, you must decide what you want to do about it. Do you want to try and work things out? Do you want to seek counseling? Do you want to know why it happened? Can you deal with the knowledge that those who cheat once are more often to cheat again? There are a lot of things to consider, but the best course of action is probably keep your finger on the pulse of your relationship from the beginning to make sure it doesn’t happen in the first place. Reg Adkins writes on behavior and the human experience at (elementaltruths.blogspot.com).