- Texting itself – sometimes texting in itself can be a troublesome thing if a woman thinks you are lacking the confidence to call or meet with them face to face. 2. Childish writing – even if you are busy and trying to be efficient, writing like a small child or with immature slang can end up being a huge turn off. Try to avoid this if at all possible 3. Consistent contact – trying to text and talk with women consistently can be a huge turn off as it shows that there is a sense of desperation. 4. Bombarding with texts – many guys who never get a reply from a woman will continue to bombard her with messages. Don’t do this! 5. Tacky texts – while confidence is key, being too arrogant or physically oriented with pictures and verbiage can be a huge problem as well. Original source – Terrible Texts That Turn Women Off [The Modern Man]